They don't. Not as people anyway. HG Tudor, an ultra narcissist, gives clear insight into what narcissists are (there are a few different types), and explains exactly why and how they treat people.
Narcissists, according to him, see people as appliances to be used and discarded at will. They don't see them has being human with feelings, rather they're something to "feed on." The more intense the emotional reaction, the better.
There have been instances where I've seen narcissists, out of the blue, upset someone. Once their target became angry, the narcissist flashed a very satisfied expression, as if they'd just eaten something delicious. In fact they had. That narcissistic person "fed" off their victim's emotions. It's sick. It's twisted. And it's unnerving to witness or to be subjected to. The best way to deal with narcissists is to "gray rock" them.
Gray rocking: showing no emotional reaction whatsoever, no matter the provocation. Going silent. This usually causes the abuser to lose interest.
The education I received from HG Tudor concerning narcissism has been an immense help. Even though he is an "ultra," I recommend people who've been victimized by narcissists to watch his videos. He has quite a library of Youtube videos available on the subject along with books on Amazon.
Word of Warning: Mr. Tudor's voice is what I imagine vampires would sound like if they were real.
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